We are all professional students, family in the same ocean perhaps merely on different boats...' We all have a reason for our being here. If we observe, not only ourselves but understand that what may be a poor choice for one, may be beneficial or better of two not so great options we have much of the understanding to believe and dream for ourselves, and not change yet assist others on their way. To all, we are indeed family. "Don't give up", Cher_. Thank you all, feel free to contact if I may be of service. Uncertain of next journey... music or ???